Weddings | Heather Essian
Jan 7 2012

best of 2011

2011 was a blessed year! i spent the year learning how to be a mom, and learning how to scale back and balance my photography business…editing will never be the same again with a cute little gal who loves to bang on the keyboard while i attempt to be productive ;) .  below are a few of my favorite images from the year. i’m so thankful to my sweet clients who allowed me to share in their life and love.

don’t miss the slide show at the bottom of the post (there are some crazy awesome photos in that set!) and it took forever to make. ;)

{seriously the cutest baby i’ve ever seen.} ;)















 

SLIDE SHOW! <——click it


Aug 11 2011

lyndsay {bridal session}

where have i been?! don’t worry i have LOADS of sessions to blog (from way back when). our sweet little H. baby keeps me quite busy!

let these photos be a reminder that it won’t always be 110 degrees out. ;-)

 


May 10 2011

jacen + nakeia {jamaica destination wedding}

what an amazing time we had photographing jacen and nakeia’s gorgeous jamaica wedding! nakeia and jacen are from baltimore, and their wedding was the first time we met in person. nakeia and i bonded over our love of the ocean during our first phone consultation. we hit it off, and i couldn’t have been more excited to be a part of their beautiful day!  one thing that i absolutely love about photographing destination weddings is that i really get a chance to know the couple and their friends and family.  jacen’s grandfather is a retired photographer and shot medium format film. he and i got a chance to chat film and how there is nothing better than spending hours printing in the darkroom. something you miss with digital photography.  thank you to my amazing second shooter and husband, jim :) he captured some beautiful moments of the bride and groom!

don’t forget to check out their wedding slide show at the bottom of the post full of more beautiful story telling images!

 

seeing each other for the first time! such a special moment…

these “first sight” photos are everything that’s great about the bride and groom seeing each other before the ceremony!!

nakeia and jacen, thank you from the bottom of our hearts for having us document your wedding. it was such a pleasure!

 

THE SLIDE SHOW!! <——click here

 

 

    Missy

    The wedding was very simple with elegances, colorful, and beautiful couple. Congrats and blessings to you both!

    GIRLFRAN. Stunning, but aren’t they ALWAYS? ;)

    Zakiya Lumumba

    Nakeia & Jacen, I am speechless. Your wedding was absolutely breathtaking. You both look amazing. Nakeia, you were such a beautiful bride. May God bless your marriage for a lifetime. Always put God first in your lives, and everything else will fall into place.

    This is so beautiful, I am thinking about having a destination wedding and your photography inspired me even more.

    Nakeia

    Awesome, Awesome, Awesome! We knew you were “the one”. Thank you so much for capturing our day so perfectly!

    STUNNING, of course! :)

    These are beautiful! I feel like I was there..So so so awesome!


Feb 16 2011

the business of wedding photography

i absolutely love it when other fellow photographers write me asking questions about photography…i had so many photographers share their time and work with me when i was just starting out that it’s only natural for me to want to share my experiences!

i’ve spent a total of 7 years out of my 10 years of shooting, photographing weddings. i spent much of that time in the early years either shooting for other photographers or dragging their bags, and I learned so much during that time.  i’m now in my 5th year of being a full-time photography business owner. one question i was recently asked from a photographer was: “is there anything you know now, that you wish you would have known then?” (in regards to wedding photography.)

i’m sure there is a lot! but one of the first things that comes to mind is how different the business of wedding photography is from that of portrait photography. weddings are a big deal! a big deal to all that are involved. the business of wedding photography requires immense attention to each bride. to show them that they are special and to make them feel that they are the only bride you are serving.  this is expected in the wedding industry. because most brides plan their weddings a year in advance you’re planning your business a year in advance. if you’re new it can be tempting to overbook yourself because you’re excited about the work. that’s what i did anyways. i think my first year in “for real” business i traveled out of the country for destination weddings 3 times in 3 months while shooting many weddings and portrait sessions before, between, and after. needless to say it got tough for me to make each bride feel like my only bride.  my new business certainly suffered because i was overbooked, not to mention i was new to running a full time business. my first two years was a crash-course in running a business!

My advice to all photographers who own their own business is, DO NOT OVERBOOK YOURSELF. every one of us functions at a different level. some can handle more work then others and do well at it, if you’re like me less is more. take the time to learn your comfort level of business. if you have more clients or work then you can handle, it doesn’t mean you’re successful. it means you’re too busy to run a successful business. don’t worry about your other photographer friends and how many weddings they’re shooting. you do what works for you. consider raising your prices and take less work so that you can keep your clients believing in your art-work and in your business. :)   i’ve always said that just because you’re an amazing artist, doesn’t mean you should run a business. it’s important that we work just as hard on our business skills, as we do on our artistry.

with weddings, we have the pleasure of working with the brides for up to 2 years, or even more sometimes. i’m still fulfilling album orders from previous year brides. so remember that last years clients are often still this years clients, which means each year you have more and more clients to tend to. this is a great thing if you are well structured and know your limits.  it definitely takes time to learn how much work you can handle so don’t be too hard on yourself and take responsibility where need be. be open with your clients and be sure you keep them in the loop on the work you’re doing for them.  i’ve been so blessed to have such gracious brides that allowed me to take the time necessary to make their wedding photos even more beautiful in the editing process.  i found that they were very supportive of me when i explained the lengthy editing process to them and gave them a reasonable (for me) time-line of expectancy. communication is key. you don’t want to get into the habit of setting time-lines that you know you can’t feasibly meet. you will then find yourself either A. staying up all hours of the night possibly neglecting yourself, and perhaps your family, or B. not keeping your word and not fulfilling the work when you had promised.  of course at times we all have to learn the hard way. i’m not saying these things are bad, i’m just saying that once it becomes a habit, no one is happy :) . and believe me, your brides will talk. because the average person has no idea how long it takes to edit a wedding, and because every photographer takes a different amount of time, your brides just might get into a discussion with their other bride friends, and begin comparing their photographers work ethics.  yikes! so be sure you communicate to them the way you work best.

just to recap: “is there anything you know now, that you wish you would have known then?”  i wish i had pursued just as much knowledge in running a business as i did in learning my craft. i also wish i had taken advice from other professional photographers who had been in business longer. for example: my pricing.

cheers to you and your adventure as a photographer/business owner!  it’s okay to mess up, and it’s okay to feel like a failure at times. those moments press us on to becoming even better, and remind us of why we do what we do. keep the questions coming, i hope i can help!

stay tuned for a post about “day of wedding tips”

a few of my favorite images from a barcelona, spain wedding

    SERIOUSLY good words of wisdom, Heather!!!! I especially love ” just because you’re an amazing artist, doesn’t mean you should run a business.” …. and …. ” if you have more clients or work then you can handle, it doesn’t mean you’re successful. it means you’re too busy to run a successful business.” AMEN girl!

    You are so beautiful. Great advice. That last capture was lovely. Thanks for the Advice.
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    Em

    rock on dude. you are so awesome. miss you, love you! Ems

    Thanks for the advice, Heather! Not over-booking yourself is something that makes a lot of sense, yet it’s not something that readily comes to mind when trying to start a wedding photography business. (Love that last shot, by the way.)


Jan 6 2011

gorgeous album

when i opened the package that cindy and peter’s album arrived in i gasped! it was just so beautiful…big and beautiful. a 16×12 canvas covered flush mount album. i was so proud flipping through the pages, seeing how lovely their images looked. the album tells the story of their love and wedding day perfectly.  it was just another reminder as to why it is so important and wonderful to invest in good photography as well as an album that will showcase your images well! they gave me full creative control and let me design it as my heart desired-i’m blessed to have such great clients that trust me to do so. it really felt like an art piece to me :) .

i received the magazines that cindy and peter’s wedding was featured in this week! it’s always so exciting to be published in magazines and it could not be done without the exquisite taste of those i work with. they are beautiful inside and out and their wedding was beautiful as well!

to see more of the design go here

{back of the album}


    I’m a new follower of your blog. You do amazing work! Do you mind if I ask what album company you used for this? It’s gorgeous!

    Cassie Wiggins

    In LOVE with the album and images of their special day!

    Gorgeous! A real piece of art!


May 25 2010

josh & penny {wedding}

josh and penny met in the second grade, and from what i hear, have loved one another ever since…what great story! josh is a very talented musician who also sang a song he wrote during the reception to penny about their love and how “she’s had his heart since the second grade.” awwwwwwe…it was a beautiful wedding! in case you missed penny’s redonkulously gorgeous bridals, you can see them here. thank you to jenna palomino for second shooting with me!

wedding venue: Piazza in the Village



i actually built an action inspired by penny’s wedding appropriately titled “penny.” :)















yes, that is snow! and they were freezing.






gorgeous details!!





penny and josh, it’s been so much fun working with you two and your families! thank you for having us be a part of your special day!

    Vertical. By the window. With Veil. Fave. :) Oh you Texas people …. a little snow … ;)

    kelly

    Gorgeous wedding! I love her cake. Such a beautiful couple.

    Heather Essian

    thank you so much friends!

    I LOVE the shot of just the two of them in the snow! Stunning! Killer job on this wedding!

    My favorite is down the aisle with the yellow candles and the veil lifting… stunning wedding my dear!

    Insanely gorgeous, Heather! The shots of the two of them in the snow are like a fairytale come true. And Penny’s dress is fabulous!!!

    these are beautiful, heather. seriously so good. i love the ring shot, especially.

    These are fantastic!

    what a beautiful wedding! these are so lovely and fun Heather!! :)


Apr 28 2010

cindy and peter {tea ceremony}

this is cindy and peter’s traditional tea ceremony…the colors are just gorgeous! i really enjoyed documenting this ceremony. traditionally the grooms family comes bearing gifts and food including a roasted pig for the bride to show that they can provide for the bride. (hope i got this right cindy :) )

Receiving Bride at Her House

On the day of the wedding, the procession of the groom’s family is led in specific order. The first person would be the representative of the groom’s house followed by the groom’s father, the groom, then the rest of his family and close friends

In the procession, the groom, his family and friends bear elaborately decorated lacquer boxes, covered in red cloth. Inside these boxes are gifts representing the wealth that the groom’s family will bring to the bride’s family. Gifts are betel, fruit, cakes, a roast pig, fabric, and an abundance of jewelry for the bride. Usually, the number of gift boxes varies between 6 or 8, but never 7 or 9 since it is seen as bad luck. However, it depends on personal view and might be reduced to 2-3 boxes.

Upon arriving at the bride’s home, the procession lights fireworks to alert the bride’s family, who then lights its own round of firecrackers to welcome the groom’s procession. Members of the procession are introduced to the bride’s family, and the bride’s family introduces its members to the procession. The groom presents his gifts to the bride’s family, and he is given permission to greet the bride, who is finally brought out.

The permission ceremony begins in front of the bride’s ancestor altar. The bride and groom burn incense sticks, asking for permission from the ancestors to bless them. The couple turns and bows to their parents, gives thanks for raising and protecting them. The bride and groom then bow to each other.

A formal tea, candle ceremony and speeches follow. While tea has always been an essential part of Vietnamese life, Vietnamese tea culture is not as complex or ritually rigid as its counterparts in China, Japan or Korea. Nevertheless, a traditional wedding is about the only time in a Vietnamese person’s life that a formal tea ceremony is essential.

The bride and groom, in front of all their guests, will serve tea (or wine) to their parents. Each parent will then give advice about marriage and family to the couple. A candle ceremony will follow, symbolizing the joining of the bride and groom and the joining of the two families. The groom’s gift boxes filled with jewelry will be opened by the groom’s mother, who will then put each piece on the bride for good fortune.

    thanks girls! jodi- indeed, i am very blessed to be doing what i’m doing! :)

    Jodi

    WOW!! Scrumptious colors, indeed!! Heather, you are so blessed to be doing what you’re doing!

    Cassie Wiggins

    Just stunning! What an awesome tradition, and now to be documented so beautifully… What a gorgeous couple with great taste!


Apr 19 2010

peter & cindy {houston wedding}

meet cindy and peter. two incredibly kind people who share such a sweet love for each other. i had the opportunity to photograph cindy and peter’s engagement session over a year ago (before i was to be their wedding photographer) and had such a blast getting to hang with them and get to know them during that session. so when cindy contacted us asking if we would shoot her wedding, i was ecstatic! cindy’s style is like none other.  there are so many gorgeous images, i wish i could share them all! a big thank you to the wonderful kari crowe for sacrificing a few days and coming with me to houston to shoot the wedding with me! she photographed the guys getting dressed below…

Event planner (they did everything from flowers to lighting):  Tom Stringer from Darryl and Co,
Videographer:  31 Films,
Hotel: The Houstonian
Cake:  Susie’s Cakes,
Planner:  Summer Hutchens from Summer for your Memories,

Dress: Vera Wang / Shoes: Christian Louboutin


















such an emotional first sight…{above}

























congratulations cindy and peter! i’ve loved every minute working with you two!

****stay tuned for cindy and peter’s traditional tea ceremony photos.*****

    Sharon Martinez

    OMGosh! I loved the exquisite photography! BEAUTIFUL COUPLE for sure.
    The pictures brought tears to my eyes.

    I like those elevator shots. Very creative and nicely done. (well, and you rocked all the photos!)

    this is gorgeous! I love the veil shot…lovely!

    Jodi

    Oh, how I wish this were featured in a magazine!!!!!!!!!! Just PERFECTION!

    beatufiul images heather! love the shot of them through the window!

    caitlin

    this is the best wedding ever! your photos are so inspiring. the elevator photo….unlike anything i’ve seen! SUPER AWESOME!

    wow. what a gorgeous wedding! amazing heather. simply amazing. i love the image of them through the window towards the top. :)

    These are crazy gorgeous, Heather! LOVE.

    to.die.for.

    Heather! I just looked at all of these, and I kept going through saying.. I am going to tell her I love that one….and that one…oh wait I love that one too… so, I just love ALL of them! That wedding looked amazing! Good job :)

    em

    Dude … Beaut.I.ful work!!!! What an amazing location and setting. Well impressed! Love ya girl!

    These are gorgeous!! I am in love with the one of them in the window! :) )

    W.O.W. these are amazingly beautiful! Excellent work, Heather! I love that one in the elevator…very cool series and so unique. I’m now inspired.

    Heather Essian

    thank you so much for your kind words friends :)

    LOVE all these images Heather!! They are truly stunning and I could look at them over and over again. AH!some job as always :)

    Oh Heather, the portraits are dreamy!

    Heather you told and amazing story with the shots.

    The veil in the wind shot and Cindy under the tree really took it to another level.

    Great composition and great color.

    beautiful wedding! amazing and emotional images that convey a great story of love.

    STUNNING images Heather! As usual :)


Apr 6 2010

penny {bridals}

penny and josh got married just a couple of weeks ago on that random snowy day…poor penny has a knack for picking cold days for portraits because i also photographed her bridals on a day that an arctic cold front came through. all in all miss penny knows how to work it even in freezing cold weather! :) .

    Jenni Daniels

    I love her hair!

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    Friggin Fraggin BRILLIANT!!!!! I love these…the window shots are AhMAZING! I may be swooning….just sayin :) .

    I LOVE these!!! So whimsical and fun!

    Heather Essian

    thank you friends! :)

    LOVE the first one! I made a poor attempt in my newspaper days, but yours is SO much cooler!

    one word: WOWZERS!!!

    I LOVE these!!! So whimsical and fun!

    Cassie

    Wow, those are marvelous! Where was that store front image taken? I guess it was around Christmas? You guys rocked it!

    oh! I think these are my favorite bridals EVER!!! beautiful!!!

    Girly Girl – That store front photo is AWESOME!!! So glad to finally see this session, Wonderful work H.

    Very very cool! Love the image of her with the statue dog & the first image.


Feb 3 2010

Preston & Jessica {wedding}

jessica and preston got married in vegas! it was so cool to get to shoot a real vegas wedding. no elvis wasn’t the officiant and no, it wasn’t in a cheesy chapel ;) . it was actually held at the gorgeous wynn hotel.  we got to take them to the super rad Neon Museum where many of the vintage vegas signs now call home. i could have shot there all day, but we only had an hour and boy was i on visual overload!  i was probably racing around that museum like a crazy lady thinking of all the places i could photograph them.

thank you preston, jessica and your wonderful families! we so enjoyed getting to be a part of your special day!

jessica is the owner of hot poppy couture here in fort worth. they’ve got some seriously cute clothing…and amazing decor complete with vintage mannequin heads and gold stripes- fabulous. go check them out!



this is blush, a swanky night club in the wynn hotel. how cool are these lamps that change color??

what’s vegas without a tough bouncer dude with a mohawk?


jessica’s gorgeous dress from bliss bridal salon in fort worth

i can never just do one shoe shot, and one ring shot…especially not if the shoes are these chanel pumps.























getting my stylin’ on :) i’m pretty sure preston was wishing i would hurry up at this point…poor guy had to deal with 3 days of having a camera in his face.

***i got to design a wedding announcement for jessica and preston that i can’t wait to share with you all, so stay tuned!***

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    These images are AWEsome with a Capital AWE!

    thanks ladies! :)

    jodi- you know i worked that sassy sign girrrl. ;)

    KILLER job, Heather! Love the VEGAS ring shot, plus, of course, the neon graveyard! :)

    Ummm, yeah…I’m totally wishing that I had been invited to THAT wedding!

    Jodi

    Of all the people in the world who could find a SASSY sign . . . Heather Essian! LOL!!! I’m so diggin’ this weddin’!

    What a great wedding! Heather – fabulous photographs! Love the shoe shots and totally LOVE the “US” shot.